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Home » Board of Directors » The Value of Quiet for the Nonprofit Leader

August 28, 2014 By Nell Edgington 2 Comments

The Value of Quiet for the Nonprofit Leader

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As summer draws to a close and my own downtime ends, it occurs to me that there is a real need, in our increasingly always-on world, for leaders to find time for quiet reflection, to reconnect with their core.

And particularly in the nonprofit world, where a leader is constantly bombarded with suggestions – from funders, board members, staff, fellow leaders, Facebook friends – it is critical that she find regular solitude to analyze and plan the best way forward.

Indeed true leadership lies not in finding the lowest common denominator among a disparate group of supporters, volunteers and staff, but rather in analyzing all options and then driving the most effective way forward (even if it is unpopular). Real leadership is not about giving the people around you what they want. It is about doing what is best and what is right. And often you find that path through time alone to think.

Perhaps thoughtful, reasoned leadership has taken a hit in recent years. Our push toward social technology has created a culture of extreme extraversion and constant noise. Dave Eggers 2013 novel, The Circle, describes a world where companies like Google and Facebook have taken over. He offers a chilling view of social media taken to the extreme with destructive group think and no room for solitude.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m a big proponent of social media, but I also think there is tremendous value in regular, silent retreat.

And I’m not alone. Amid the broad adoption of an increasingly social way of life, we are, in certain pockets, beginning to realize that quiet has its place as well. Some politicians, finally turned off by the constant screaming of our increasingly partisan political system, have begun turning toward inner reflection to find a better way. Steven Pressfield describes the importance of getting away from it all and “letting the well fill up overnight.” And even social media mavens, Beth Kanter and Arianna Huffington have both recently begun promoting solitude and reflection.

Could it be that we are realizing that while new tools to make us more social have their place in the work of social change, individual reflection is also quite necessary. While crowdfunding and crowdsourcing and crowdthinking all have an important role to play, there is also tremendous value in a leader spending time, alone, to process the world around her and then emerge with a plan.

Nonprofit leaders are often working on large, intractable social problems. Those problems require the right way forward, not the most popular way forward. As a social change leader you must claim your very real need to turn off the noise. Amid the quiet you may just discover the necessary path. And perhaps also, the will to lead us there.

Photo Credit: Sebastien Panouille

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Filed Under: Board of Directors, Capacity Building, Leadership, Nonprofits, Roadblocks, Social Change, Strategy Tagged With: Arianna Huffington, Beth Kanter, leadership, nonprofit, nonprofit board, nonprofit strategy, The Circle

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  1. Beth Kanter says

    August 28, 2014 at 7:27 pm

    Thanks for linking to my post. I believe that solitude is essential, but the real question is how to balance that with connectedness.

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  2. Nell Edgington says

    August 29, 2014 at 8:36 am

    Thanks for the comment, Beth. I think the default these days is constant connectedness, so my argument is that leaders need to carve out time for solitude, which is hard to do when there is so much pressure for constant connectedness. If everyone is always striving for connectedness, we are limiting individual creativity and leadership, which is essential to a thriving community.

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